About me

As the legend goes, when the phoenix resurrects from the flames, she is even more beautiful than before.

Sometimes in life we struggle with keeping positivity and faith near us. We tend to forget the things that keep us fighting each and every day.

I made this site to help with the every day struggle anyone might be feeling. To be the positivity in life anyone may need. To give you another reason to keep fighting when you may think the war is over.

Lighthouses always brought me peace. The light it gives brings you back home, to your center. Brings you in from the darkness or danger. My hope is that this site will help you find the same peace.




Sometimes we try to forget what hurt us or who hurt us. I can honestly tell  you that it’s nearly impossible to do so. It’s not how healing works. It’s not how grief works. Whether you want it to or not the memories are a part of you. It shapes you to who are and who you will become. You have to make room for all the memories. The happy memories and even the sad ones. You have to truly accept what happened and accept that they are a apart of you. You can’t force how they will affect you or how often they get brought. Be vulnerable to with yourself. Feel the emotion and the raw intensity of it. This can be the hardest part to do because this is when we will our weakest. If you have to, do it by yourself away from others but this portion of the process has to occur so you can heal. 

Remember that the memories, the good and the bad were your yesterday’s. They are not your future. 

Hold On To That Little Bit Of Faith

We have to keep believing that the best is yet to come. It can be hard with what we have experienced in the past few months but we have to keep that little bit of faith. Things will change and be on your side. You will learn about new strengths you didn’t think you had. You will continue to grow into a better version of yourself. If things don’t seem to be going your way currently, it will get better. The mountains in front of you may seem to high to climb but keep that little bit of faith. Keep climbing and don’t give up. Know matter what you are feeling and what you are going through, always remember that the best is yet come.

Be Bold

It’s okay to not fit into the crowd. You don’t have to change who you are or break yourself to get acceptance from others around you. Learn to be different. Learn to be unique and fully accept it. You were uniquely made, be who you were born to be. You might get judged but you listened to your heart. You listened to who you truly are and that is what matters most. Change the world, step away from the crowd. Be courageous and bold because the only person’s acceptance you will ever need is your own. 

Stop Figuring Out Everything

You don’t have to know what comes next in life. You don’t have to figure out life itself. Especially not in times like what we have experienced. You don’t have to figure out your book of life. It’s hard to just let life do it’s own thing without us trying to change it’s path. We are still growing, learning, and developing into better version of ourselves. Each path is our own, beautiful in it’s own unique way. Let yourself enjoy the journey and what it will bring us. These are the times to enjoy the little pleasures in life. The sun that shines through your window in the morning. The feeling of the light breeze on a summer evening. The laughs and love we share with loved ones and friends. 

Be patient with yourself and accept in the unknown. Your story is being written as we live it, so put down the pen and enjoy what the universe brings. 

Riding Out The Waves

Tough times will happen. When we’re prepared or unprepared for them, they can come in waves. We have a tendency to fight against the current when tough times emerge. You would think riding out the waves would be easier. The problem is we want to change the situation and/or the outcome. So we fight against it. Wishing with all of our might and using the last of the energy we have left. We start to feel like we’re drowning.

The hardest part of riding out the waves is acceptance. Accepting that we can’t change the outcome or even people. Sometimes it can be easy while other times it can become difficult. Try to ride out the waves. Use the energy you have left to ride out the tough times, no matter how long it takes. 

See the beauty of what is coming and what is no longer. 

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