About me

As the legend goes, when the phoenix resurrects from the flames, she is even more beautiful than before.

Sometimes in life we struggle with keeping positivity and faith near us. We tend to forget the things that keep us fighting each and every day.

I made this site to help with the every day struggle anyone might be feeling. To be the positivity in life anyone may need. To give you another reason to keep fighting when you may think the war is over.

Lighthouses always brought me peace. The light it gives brings you back home, to your center. Brings you in from the darkness or danger. My hope is that this site will help you find the same peace.

 

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Take your time ❤️

It’s okay to heal in your own time. There is no rush. There is no deadline. Do not add pain to what you already feel by putting extra pressure on yourself. You don’t have to figure it all out now. You can be here. You can just breathe if you can’t do anything else. Allow yourself permission to feel the loss.. to feel the grief. Give yourself time. When you feel ready, slowly put yourself back together. You will slowly put one foot in front of the other in due time. Although, we carry this pain and burdens of grief. Life is still worth living. Your heart will beat again.

Grief

There are times I can not sleep and I just listen to my heartbeat in the darkness. It makes me remember that I’m still breathing, when I feel numbness. They say time heals the wounds of grief and maybe it does. But grief stays inside of you. It manifests into different parts of your being. It builds a home inside of you. You will survive this. I know you may feel broken or even damaged. Strength and healing takes time. You are already surviving by just being here. 🩶