About me

As the legend goes, when the phoenix resurrects from the flames, she is even more beautiful than before.

Sometimes in life we struggle with keeping positivity and faith near us. We tend to forget the things that keep us fighting each and every day.

I made this site to help with the every day struggle anyone might be feeling. To be the positivity in life anyone may need. To give you another reason to keep fighting when you may think the war is over.

Lighthouses always brought me peace. The light it gives brings you back home, to your center. Brings you in from the darkness or danger. My hope is that this site will help you find the same peace.

 

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Grief

There are times I can not sleep and I just listen to my heartbeat in the darkness. It makes me remember that I’m still breathing, when I feel numbness. They say time heals the wounds of grief and maybe it does. But grief stays inside of you. It manifests into different parts of your being. It builds a home inside of you. You will survive this. I know you may feel broken or even damaged. Strength and healing takes time. You are already surviving by just being here. 🩶

Being strong

Being strong.. everyday is utterly exhausting. I don’t always want to be stong.. sometimes I would rather crumble into nothing. The journey to “joy” is not telling someone it will be okay. It’s not telling someone to simply get over it. Sometimes what is needed is to sit in the sorrow.. to sit in the grief. To cry until the damn itself breaks. To let the darkness and pain out as you cry and break from release. Be someone’s light when it’s needed. Sit with them and be in the moment. Be their support when they can not be their own. Let them know that they are not alone ❤️‍🩹