About me

As the legend goes, when the phoenix resurrects from the flames, she is even more beautiful than before.

Sometimes in life we struggle with keeping positivity and faith near us. We tend to forget the things that keep us fighting each and every day.

I made this site to help with the every day struggle anyone might be feeling. To be the positivity in life anyone may need. To give you another reason to keep fighting when you may think the war is over.

Lighthouses always brought me peace. The light it gives brings you back home, to your center. Brings you in from the darkness or danger. My hope is that this site will help you find the same peace.

 

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Our own grief

We always get told how to handle our grief. Grief with ourselves. Grief of a loved one. Grief of our personal health. Grief of what used to be. Being told that the sun will come out and shine again is not something we want to hear. Or even say they are in a better place to soften the blow to your heart. But I will say that you will crawl out of your grief in due time, and I will stand there and see you stand again while saying nothing at all. 💙

Finding your calm

I have been trying to find calm for longer than I can remember. After I got sick in early 2025 and diagnosed with Gastroparesis, I have been in a tornado of a world. I have learned what brings me peace and what disrupts it. I have learned to disassociate with life and plug into another world when reading. I have been my knees praying and talking to God. I have listened to the silence and quieted the noise around me. I have learned to treasure the small joys around me and let go of what doesn’t. Sometimes it’s important to remember to take time and find your calm.