About me

As the legend goes, when the phoenix resurrects from the flames, she is even more beautiful than before.

Sometimes in life we struggle with keeping positivity and faith near us. We tend to forget the things that keep us fighting each and every day.

I made this site to help with the every day struggle anyone might be feeling. To be the positivity in life anyone may need. To give you another reason to keep fighting when you may think the war is over.

Lighthouses always brought me peace. The light it gives brings you back home, to your center. Brings you in from the darkness or danger. My hope is that this site will help you find the same peace.



Lessons And Blessings

Lately, I have realized that some of my darkest moments brought the brightest endings. Negative or toxic people in our lives can teach us a lesson. Grief can show us that rain is necessary for flowers to grow. That we can still grow.

Our struggles can seem like bad luck but in reality they can be a blessing. It can lead us down the path that was intended for us. Your journey does not end when a door closes. There is always hope.

We have to keep going. Even when we feel weak or like we can’t go on. We have to pick ourselves up and keep pushing forward. The battle will end and we will get through it.

Just keep the faith.

Climbing The Mountain

We struggle through life. It’s something that seems inescapable at times. The more we try to hide from it the more it finds us. I have learned that this is when self care is most important. Whether it’s staying in bed all day, crying, or even just sleeping.

Put yourself first.

Put your healing first.

You are important (remember that). When you’re feeling like you are being pulled in 20 different directions, just stop.

Let it be enough. Breathe. Be gentle with yourself. Know that you are doing the best that you can. That’s all you can do to survive through the struggle.

What you are doing is enough, you are enough. 🖤

Putting Your Foot Down

I hope your strong enough to put your foot down. To know when enough is simply enough. To be strong enough to not let others hurt you.

Throughout life people will try to treat you poorly or just be rude. Do not spend your life trying to change their view on you or to seek their approval. Try not carry hate in your heart because of them. Leave them be and ignore their opinions about you.

They can not hurt you unless you give them permission to do so. 🖤

Take It Slow

Take it slow.

Just breathe.

Everything will work out. Instead of worrying yourself sick, remember. Remind yourself of the times you got overwhelmed or sadden. Now remind yourself of all the times you pushed through and conquered it all.

Life can throw things your way that you weren’t ready for or expecting. Yet, you survived everything thrown your way.

You can definitely survive this too. Have a little faith and trust. Trust that things will get better.

No matter how dark or hopeless you may feel, you will make it. You have already proven it. 🖤

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