About me

As the legend goes, when the phoenix resurrects from the flames, she is even more beautiful than before.

Sometimes in life we struggle with keeping positivity and faith near us. We tend to forget the things that keep us fighting each and every day.

I made this site to help with the every day struggle anyone might be feeling. To be the positivity in life anyone may need. To give you another reason to keep fighting when you may think the war is over.

Lighthouses always brought me peace. The light it gives brings you back home, to your center. Brings you in from the darkness or danger. My hope is that this site will help you find the same peace.



You Deserve It

I hope you always remember that you deserve it all. 

You deserve the best, the most honest, the most beautiful and purest love in the world. Not just to be loved by others but to be loved by yourself. To be able to look in the mirror and say “I’m exactly who I want to be.” To be able to speak up and be proud of yourself. To be brave yet open. You deserve the nicest people and most caring people to walk in your life.

You deserve it all

The whole world

Never forget that

Finding True Happiness

Everyone seems to seek happiness like it was a materialistic item or location they can travel to. Happiness was never about your job, the degrees you have, or even being in a relationship. Happiness is no about following in the same footsteps as those before you and it was never about being like those you surround yourself with. 

One day, you will know it was about the discovery, the journey, the hope, and listening to your heart and following it where ever it takes you. Happiness is about being kinder to and loving yourself. Happiness is about embracing the person you are becoming and accepting yourself as you are. 

Being truly happy was always about learning how to live with yourself, by yourself, for yourself.  Happiness will be found in every inch of your being as it radiates out for others to see. Happiness will never be found in the hands of another person.

It was always about you. 

Take The Jump

Life is too short to wake up each morning with regrets or sadness. Wake up each day with a grateful heart and happiness. Love the people who treat you right and feel like you are worthy of being loved, forgive the ones who don’t. Believe that everything happens for a reason and accept things that come your way. 

If you get the chance, take it. Don’t hesitate when something new comes your way, you never know where it might take you. If it changes your life, let it. Do not fight the changes that comes your way. You never know where the next journey will take you. If love comes your way, let it in without fear. Do not be afraid of what the future might hold, it could be the best decision you ever made. 

Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. 

Life Advice

I was thinking about life and thought about what I have learned from my divorce and this is what I came up with.

Always be the best person you can be even through hard times. When your tired still be kind. Be understanding and patient when you’re angry. Always try to do more than you are ask without expecting anything back in return.

Listen when someone talks, really listen without thinking about how you would reply back. Tell people in your life that you love them and appreciate them, tomorrow is never promised. Go out of your way to do something special for someone, create happiness for others. 

One thing you should never do? 

Never try to prove how great you are to someone. Your actions will speak for themselves. We have a limited time on this Earth, so don’t waste on proving your worth to others. If someone doesn’t see your light, do not worry. Good people are attracted to flame and to light, they will come.

People will die, but so many forget to truly live.

Live to the fullest capacity.

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