About me

As the legend goes, when the phoenix resurrects from the flames, she is even more beautiful than before.

Sometimes in life we struggle with keeping positivity and faith near us. We tend to forget the things that keep us fighting each and every day.

I made this site to help with the every day struggle anyone might be feeling. To be the positivity in life anyone may need. To give you another reason to keep fighting when you may think the war is over.

Lighthouses always brought me peace. The light it gives brings you back home, to your center. Brings you in from the darkness or danger. My hope is that this site will help you find the same peace.



Live For You

Sometimes in life we get so fixated on what we should be doing at certain ages. The most important aspect I have learned about life is NOT to be fixated on what society or our peers find  acceptable at each age. We feel so much pressure from it when we start to get hammered with it. We tend to feel like we have deadlines on our career, when to have children, down to our love life. We get so obsessed and fixated on having our crap together that we stop enjoying life altogether. It becomes sad that we get so obsessed about the future that we forget to live in the now. Who really cares about how much you have figured out in life? Go at your own pace and enjoy your own journey in life. You don’t start living until you stop comparing and caring about how others see you. 

Just do you!

Self Happiness

Stop worrying about others understanding you or being worried about what they think of you. Get in touch with yourself instead, your true self. Start focusing on what makes your heart happy and what makes your soul feel peace. You are your biggest cheerleader so accept your flaws and imperfections. Accept your openness and vulnerability, your everything. Life tends to become easier and more fulfilling when you are simply yourself. The world will keep spinning whether people understand or like you, so why not like the next trip around the sun be about you? 

Beauty In The Storm

It took me a very long time to figure out that life isn’t always going to go our way. That we may not always get what we want, when we want it. Understanding that life won’t always be a beautiful fairytale.

Not everyone we meet we will have a connection to. That they aren’t supposed to finish this chapter in life with us. Sometimes the people that come into our lives will teach us how to love and live life. Others might teach how not to love.

Some people will teach us how not to settle in life or be invisible to the world. Some may leave our lives and it’s okay. Each person we meet will always teach us a lesson, good or bad. These lessons is what we take with us in life. This is what helps shape our journey in life.

We have to find the beauty in each storm we go through until we see the sunrise again.

What Truly Humbles You

I have gone through life feeling like I’m on a roller coaster that never ends at times. When you feel as though the ride is over life seems to drop you yet again. Yet, the only thing that has always humbled me was time. Time seems to humble you in all the things you see and the things that you don’t see coming. Time gives you the opportunity to achieve what comes your way and also like those same opportunities fall. It will let you be center stage or let you blend in with the rest of the crowd. 

Time will let you live the life you first ran away from and let you learn to dig deeper into what made you run away. It will let you learn to listen and love the hearts that walk among you on Earth. Most importantly time will teach you to see. It will teach you to listen and not always speak. It will teach you what truly matters and what doesn’t. When the end is really the beginning and when the end is truly the end. 

We are going to go through it all, whether we want to or not. We’re going to feel like we have it all handled or that we are completely lost . Sometimes at the same time. Even with it all, time will still humble you throughout life. Time will never stop for us to get our shenanigans together but we go slow it down. To take time to breathe and simply humble and center ourselves again.

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