rULES OF LIFE

Don’t give up.

When you feel tired and life begins to weigh you down, don’t give up.

When you have beautiful moments in life, treasure them.

When your soul and body is telling you to rest, listen and nourish it.

When you start to question who you are, be gentle and love yourself.

Be the best you can be with where and who you are in life.

Everything you thought would break you, made you stronger.

Don’t give up.

Keep going.

Break Through The Darkness

We have moments in our life that become overwhelming to the point you just want to break down and cry. Everyone tells you it’s going to be okay, take a vacation, or even try some meditation. There are times where that simply isn’t an option or it doesn’t work.

There are times where you just have to have some quiet time and figure some crap out. Release all the negative energy. Release what is weighing you down. Do not let them overtake you. Do not let them drown you.

There is no time line for overcoming whatever is weighing you down. It’s a slow process but a necessary process. Feel whatever is needed but release what doesn’t bring you light and joy.

Life is too short to live within in darkness of our subconscious.

little moments in time

We caught up in life that we’re just always on the go. Going to work, checking emails, responding to social media or making plans for the next two weeks. We forget that we don’t have to be busy. We don’t always have to check our email or rushing to the next destination. We have to come to terms within ourselves that it’s necessary to slow down life.

Take a break.

Take a breather.

Turn the TV off. Put your phone down. Detach from social media.

Enjoy loved ones around you. Watch the sunrise on a early summer morning. Go buy your favorite scented candle and read a new book.

You would be surprised that the simple or little things in life, really aren’t little at all.

Insecurities

Every person you have met in life and even those you have yet to encounter are fighting an inner battle no one knows about. Everyone is fighting an inner demon or an insecurity about themselves.

We all have a tendency to want what someone else has or even just feeling unsure about who we are as a person compared to another.

So this is my reminder to you.

You are beautifully made just the way you are. Just as beautiful as the brightest star in the sky. You are strong and unique in your own way. There is no one else like you in this world, how amazing is that! There may be things you don’t love about yourself but there are also so many amazing things about you too.

Remind yourself everyday of all the things you love about yourself until you simply don’t forget. It’s always a battle worth fighting. You are just as worthy of your own love that you give so freely to others.

Little pick me up

Life has been difficult for everyone. So please don’t be hard on yourself, give yourself some grace. There will be times where you feel beside yourself because you haven’t accomplished what you wanted in the time frame you wanted. Sometimes what we want is not what we need.

Enjoy life and all of what is to come. The point of life is not to accomplish everything, have some fun! You will figure everything out in due time, be patient with life. Everything we go through will set us up for what we were born to accomplish. It will make sense one day. Take the losses, heartbreak, and joys with stride. Don’t be scared to make mistakes! That is what life is all about, trial and error.

Get lost in finding yourself. Get lost in the journey. Let it encompass all you do. Always always always believe in yourself. Forget what others may think of you, you are not here for their approval. Make yourself proud before anyone else in life. You are worth it all.

the daily struggless

It seems that we have had our daily struggles with life. Covid has not made it easy on us in the past year and counting. When we think we’re high there seems to be a curveball right after. The feeling of just not being able to get ahead is like a rain cloud am I right?

One thing that I have tried to remember is that when we feel low, it isn’t a permanent position. We will all rise again. Things in your life will start to get easier, be patient. The lowest point of your life isn’t a resting place and it doesn’t define who you are as a person. Do not label yourself. Do not be your own worst enemy. The struggles we encounter will not last forever. I truly believe if God brought you to it, he will bring you through it. Keep your faith, let it strengthen in times where you feel weakness. If you need to pray, pray. If you need find a quiet place, find your peace. If you need to kneel, kneel and pray.

The light will shine right through the storm and dark clouds and how beautiful that will be.